5 Places to Meet Men

Now, you and I both know all of the obvious pickup spots for men. You can go to any club, bar, gym, dating site or sporting event and encounter hundreds of guys. However, if you are seriously looking for a loving and committed relationship, you need to do more than just find members of the opposite sex. You need to find the type of man you are actually looking for.

So, use this list of 5 great places to meet the man you have been looking for. Before you get started make sure you know what you really want in a man!

1. Bookstore or Library - Don’t just head to these spots every day and think you will find a man hiding behind a shelf. You have to look for things such as book signings or other similar events that will bring out people with the same literary interests. Also make sure to look for groups online or at local stores where you are likely to meet someone with similar interests.

2. Charity Events - When you are passionate about a cause or an organization, it is likely that you will dedicate time and energy to it. One of the best ways to meet a compatible guy is to participate in events that support your preferred charities or other organizations. Lucky for you, if you meet him here you already have something in common and can easily bond over it.

3. Food/Wine/Beer Events - Know of a local pub crawl? Maybe a nearby wine shop is hosting an event. Is there an Oktoberfest about to happen in your city? Any of these places could be good options for meeting compatible men.

4. Social Events - A friend’s barbecue, a going away party, even lunch at a social table. You never know when or where you’re perfect match will be, so get out there.  When you and a man belong to the same extended social group it is a sign that you are going to get along. Don’t miss out on this one!

5. Online - Yes, this one is a bit of a cliché, but you cannot ignore the quality sites that do a lot of pre-screening for social compatibility. Try it for a while and you may be surprised. Another great thing about online dating, is it takes time and effort to join, so you know the potential matches are also interested in relationships.

There are many other ways to meet men, but these are some of the most successful simply because they use a basis of compatible interests. Give them a try and you will be pleasantly surprised at the results!

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